Tell me and I forget

Teach me and I remember

Involve me and I learn

-Benjamin Franklin

Make no excuses, parents. Your role in the success of your child depends on your commitment to their educations. If you do not take their schooling seriously, chances are they won’t either. Don’t expect the teacher to be the sole factor in the success of their education. Learning begins in the home. You set the example. If you ask about school every day and emphasize its importance, they will be more likely to place a high priority on education. Here are some ideas that may contribute to their success.

At an early age, read to your child. Set aside a time and special place for reading. When I taught elementary school, I had an area that was used only for reading. It featured a couch, bean bag chair, large throw rug, and end tables with lamps. When other work was complete, the student could move into the reading area.

At times, I would read to the class. Let them see you read. Shut off the television and computer and read! Give books as gifts. Make trips to the library. Reading is the key to every occupation.

Celebrate good progress reports. Praise your child often and reward each book read.

Each child is special in his or her own way. Stay in tune with what goes on in the classroom. Keeping in touch with teachers will show how important you believe school is. Parent-teacher conferences are a must. In so many cases, parents don’t participate in their child’s education. When a teacher has 150 students a day, and only 10 parents show for conferences, what message does that send? It discourages the teacher as well as the student. Often the parents of the all “A” students are the only ones who attend conferences. Maybe there is a correlation?

Students also need proper sleep and nutrition. Parents should enforce a fair bedtime. Keep the computer out of the bedroom as well as the cell phone. This eliminates temptation. Kids need sleep. Some schools are even starting later to help produce productive learning.

So often nutrition is overlooked; a can of pop and a donut are not acceptable. I heard a dietitian on a special segment of the news say a good breakfast for a teen is peanut butter (unless allergic to peanut butter), whole wheat bread, a banana, and a cup of yogurt. Suggested lunch was a tuna sandwich, fresh fruit and a salad. I’m not a dietitian, but many suggestions can also be found online. The important thing is a substantial breakfast free of empty calories and excess sugar. If you can get kids to have hot oatmeal in the morning, have at it. Be sure they get up on time, so they have the opportunity to sit down to a balanced breakfast.

So you don’t become overwhelmed, try making changes gradually. I’m sure your children will begin to appreciate your concerns and efforts on their behalf.